Friday, September 20, 2013

추석(한가위)-Chuseok (Hangawi) Related Photo Spam (Happy Korean Thanksgiving!)

from Pyeongtaek Youth Community Center website (ptycc.or.kr)

Happy Korean Thanksgiving!



Last year, when 추석/한가위 (Chuseok/Hangawi) came I really didn't know much about the holiday or understand what it celebrates. 
Bring on the Wikipedia articles! I love Wikipedia for many reasons, and one of them is their direct explanations for many Korean things. I think the article on 추석 (Chuseok) is very informative and fascinating. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chuseok

I also decided to just search 'chuseok' on Google Images this morning, and I found so many pretty pictures that I have to share some of them here. :)


 
Rice cakes and hanboks, from Allkpop.com's 'A Detailed Explanation of Chuseok'



The dance
"Ganggangsullae" I believe
from english.seoul.go.kr
Songpyeon rice cakes from allkpop.com 'A Detailed Explanation of Chuseok'
Cute kids and their crazy silly faces in the traditional hanbok. From wordpress blog 'The Groovy Bow Sequence Goes Korea' post titled 'Chuseok'




SNSD in hanboks. Picture came up when I searched 'chuseok' so I figure that's why they were wearing them, but if these are more like New Year's hanboks, let me know (and if you want, tell me if there's a difference!) from wordpress blog 'fathiakissop'.
From blog.ningin.com, I liked this picture because 1. It's Super Junior in hanboks 2. It's from a chicken commercial 3. You get to see a variation in the hanbok style when you look at the next picture....




Not sure why there is a difference, but clearly some of them are still wearing the same hanboks and others have changed+they've added the interesting scarves to all but one outfit. I wonder if it's photoshop *suspicious eyebrow raise* It's pretty anyway. From moonlightunes.wordpress.com




Rice cakes? from hancinema.net



Eating rice cakes under a full moon. From blogs.redorbit.com
Latern illustration. From http://cdn8.mixrmedia.com/wp-uploads/ningin/blog/2012/09/chuseok.png follow the link to see more Korean celebrities wearing the traditional hanbok. :) My favorite is this picture-
Yoogeun, a Korean child 'celebrity' from the variety/comedy show 'Hello Baby', in which Korean music stars take care of a Korean child for a few hours every day. Obviously, he got just about as much girl-attention as his handsome caretakers.


Lanterns! From tumblr



Last but not least, Google's own images in celebration of Korean Thanksgiving. When I was in Korea, I automatically accessed Korean Google products instead of American ones. I enjoyed the very different Google Doodles and learning more about the Korean historical events they celebrated. 





Happy Chuseok, everyone! 추석 잘 보내세요~ 

Sorry this is a short post with little writing, I'm busy lately and I want to dedicate my time to studies and finishing my South Korea Journey posts. But I didn't want to pass up the opportunity to spam everyone with gorgeous pictures of this holiday, hahaha. XD


-Argentia











Saturday, September 14, 2013

In Which I Retract (some of) My Previous Statements...

...about boyfriends in college.

At least when you have days like today. You know, those times you just want to have a (proven trustworthy, of course) guy walk up to you and be like this-
"Back off, you creepy losers, she's mine!"
I mean, albeit I'm not as dumb as Tohru (girl in the picture), I still manage to blindly walk into conversations with people that find me attractive.
My situation today was simple: the last day of a two-day class that I was doing for a single credit. A nursing student, who just happened to have "died" twice before and liked history, wanted to tell me all about it. For fear of being rude, I waited around and talked to him, but what I thought would maybe be 30 minutes of chatting became two hours of intense discussion, debate, and then him trying to flirt with me! Seriously! I walked into this expecting to get a deep and fascinating conversation, which I appreciated, but he just had to express his interest in me while we talked. The worst part? I think he was just playing with my mind, which messes me up even more. I hate the feeling that an intuitive is picking my brain-even if they are doing it, I don't like it when they make it obvious that they know what I'm feeling and thinking.
Example-
Him: You've made it 2 yards from the classroom door and you just keep backing away from me! *chuckes* You are SO uncomfortable.
Me: I'm always like this...
Him: I know. I've watched you.

Me: *INTERNAL RED LIGHTS CREEPY STALKER WATCHING ME GUY THINKS HE KNOWS ME ALREADY CRAZY RUN*

Let me say I am not trying to gang up on intuitives here, because you folks are amazing and I appreciate you a lot. I just hate it when I meet the kind of people that like to rub their abilities in my face and/or use them to scare the heck out of me. Which, if he was soooo good at figuring me out, he should have been able to realize I was nervous and wary of him and respected that. I really appreciate that in a guy, even a guy that is interested in me-respect and understanding!
Furthermore, I know I'm interested in psychology-I do watch people and I try to figure out what they are thinking and their motives for doing things. However, I don't do it to pick anyone's brain, and if you tell me to back off, I will! I only do it because I love seeing how interesting and diverse people are, and I want to understand them. I'm not trying to attack you. Please don't feel that way.
Anyway, we did have a constructive conversation. We talked about race ("your Indian blood definitely explains those deep, dark amber brown eyes of yours, which are very pretty by the way"), we talked about history (he loves Woodrow Wilson's administration), and politics and economics (he's a Leftist Progressive). We talked about the end of the world (he believes it's a machine that will stop working), we talked about religion (he's an Atheist), and then we talked about mental disorders and psychology (he has some interesting stories, refused to tell me his type beyond 'E'). Remind me to stay away from that topic with people in the future. They either jump on it and start trying to pick my brain apart or they run from me like I'm chasing them with fire.

In the end, after numerous 'honey's and 'sweetie's and 'you're adorable's, and comments that my inability to speak English (aka, picking up a slight Korean accent when saying the words 'really' and 'actually') is 'cute', I felt uncomfortable. Maybe you, reader, would not feel uncomfortable. But I felt very out of my element and lost, and I did not like the way he was talking to me. So I told him to stop flirting. Cue the smooth-talking excuse that he isn't flirting but wouldn't mind me entertaining the idea. I made some casual remark about how I would shoot him if he flirted with me (it was in a humorous way, laced with just enough venom, I promise), and he replied "as if I wouldn't find that attractive". Since at that point a lot of my questions were getting quite a lot of rhetorical answers, I asked him the vague and open-ended, "what if I have a boyfriend?"

To which he answered: "You think that if you had one, that would change anything even if there were something to change? I don't care about that."

You know. It's that moment when you want to say, "well, Don Juan, I'd like to hear you say that when my boyfriend breaks your nose."

But alas, such violence could put my invisible boyfriend in jail, and of course, there is the reality that he IS invisible, so I just humored the idea of me busting his face and came up with a good excuse to leave.

So this, my friends, is one of the reasons I sometimes wish either I had a flesh and blood boyfriend, who with grace, respect, and sweetness, treats me nicely and tells everyone else to back off. Or, of course, there's the option of my books growing arms or me putting a flashing red sign over my head that says 'married to college/don't even bother'. Yeah. I'm not sure which one is more likely, or easiest to maintain, but, you know...it got me thinking. :P

-Argentia


Friday, September 6, 2013

Day 2 in South Korea-Tuesday Night Drunks, E-mart, and a Lost Chinese Man.

오늘은 참치김밥 먹었어요. 제가 E-mart을 갔었어요.  과자하고 바나나 우유 샀어요.
Today I ate tuna kimbap. I went to E-mart. I bought snacks and banana milk.

I don't know if this is true or not, but when I was in South Korea I experienced something very new and very unexpected-Korean people like drinking on Tuesday night.
I don't know if it's because surviving Monday and Tuesday is so hard, or if it's a cultural tradition, or perhaps just my bad luck, but both the Tuesdays I spent in Korea featured a lot of people who were either drinking, had been drinking, were drunk, or were totally plastered.
But we'll get to that in a moment. Let's address my first day of real classes!

I got up Tuesday morning with a heart singing 'thank you Jesus!' for clean clothes and a suitcase packed with everything I needed. Or everything I thought I would need. :) I hurriedly got dressed because I wanted to talk to Mom all about my plans for that day since my tablet was finally charged. I had discovered that 'country-wide internet' in Korea is not always free, but available! As we continue through my journey of lostness and making my parents worry, you will find that this becomes very important very soon.
Anyway, on this day it rained a lot again. However, the rain wasn't that bad when I got to meet my teacher-how sunny she is! Her personality is so vibrant and lively that she made the entire process of learning Korean that much more enjoyable. She also really likes cats, speaks fluent Mandarin, and wants to marry a Chinese man (preferably within this year, any available Chinese guys reading this! Sadly I can't do my advertisement in Chinese...). Why does she want to marry a Chinese man? Because apparently, even after getting married, Chinese guys will still cook, clean, etc. etc., while according to her, Korean men won't. And the cooking of a Chinese man? Apparently, it's amazingly good. I found it really funny that the same stereotype we have here in the United States is known in South Korea-the Chinese man can cook.
 Now, I don't want to insult any Chinese guys by stereotyping them. It's a compliment to you! We girls think you Chinese men are awesome! Feel flattered! :)
  It thunder stormed around lunchtime, and we nearly lost power in the Graduate Building. When we came downstairs there was a huge amount of foreign and Korean students gathered in the lobby, waiting for it to stop raining. It was so dark outside it looked like night was upon us-that's how bad this storm was.

 We skipped across the road to Hanyang Plaza and ate kimbap for lunch. I had tuna kimbap (twice, the second time was next week) and let me just say-it was amazing. I'm a little crazy over kimbap, and so the chance to eat it in South Korea was one I could not pass up, even if it tastes nearly identical to that which myself and Mom make here at home.
 After lunch, the skies cleared. I was so happy to see a blue sky in South Korea that I took pictures on my 20 minute trek back to the dorm.

Once I got to the door of my dorm, I dug into the pocket of my jeans to find that my dorm key was gone. Yes, you got that right-I lost a key only a day after getting it. Of course, I hit rock bottom after I reached the administration office. I had re-traced everywhere I had gone that morning to find the key. I even asked the folks at the restaurant if they had found one. While waiting for a class to end so that I could inspect our classroom, I sent Mom my second most desperate and whiny email for the entire time I was there. I was pretty near to tears-in the United States, a lost dorm key meant $100 dollars and a lot of scorn. When I entered the classroom, the professor and students were still sitting around, and the program organizing lady explained that I was looking for a key.
Number two act of kindness from folks in South Korea-the professor announced what I was looking for, and immediately the students dropped to their knees and started searching everywhere! I wasn't even combing the floor yet! After two minutes of searching, we decided it was a lost cause, and I went with the lady back to the office. You know how much a replacement for that key cost me? 3,000 won, which is about $2.73 USD. If the lady was angry with me, she never showed it-she smiled and said it was perfectly okay, and I could go to the dorm office with the security guard of my dorm and they would make me a new key that afternoon.
Well, I did so. After a little language confusion with the security guard (but it turned into a sweet sort-of exchange afterwards, because he always said hello to me and asked how I was doing after that), I got my key from the dorm office. Another security guard there warned me in his broken English that I should be very careful of thieves since keys had been stolen for that exact purpose. He wasn't harsh with me, but told me firmly that I needed to be careful with my key and not lose track of where it was, and I needed to watch out for thieves. I was a little scared after that, but I know he only said it so that I would be on alert. I did keep most of my electronics out of sight after that and I really hope the key just slipped out of my pocket instead of being stolen.
Afterwards, I relaxed in my dorm for a while, where I took this video of my area from my dorm balcony (which I did walk out onto after a few days...it probably wasn't good but it looked stable!)-http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_G9C0ETtefQ
I met up with my friend Sandra to go on a shopping trip to E-mart! It's like the Wal-mart of South Korea I think, so of course I was excited. There is a small shopping mall above Wangsimni Station, and this is the E-mart that we went to. We also stopped at a restaurant a short walk away and ate 물 냉면 (mul naengmyung/water naengmyun). It was pretty good but for some reason I got a little sick on it. The meat they gave us was very tasty, however, and I really want to go back to that restaurant one day! Pictures speak louder than words (and who wants to hear me ramble about a supermarket, anyway?) so here's a few snapshots of the evening.
Our amazing restuarant!

Sadly blurry picture of Wangsimni at night. :(

Coffee-do you spot Joowon and Jin Se-yeon advertising?!

Oh, yes-that is Roy Kim on chocolate hazelnut candy. And I bought it because I am easily duped by his cute face. XD

Korean Oreos and two other cookies-Chaming and Na! I think the Chaming is more of a cracker and I know Na! is a cheese filled cracker.  :)

These are called 'Big Pie' and they are a cookie with a strawberry jam center covered in chocolate. They are delicious and I loved them. XD

This is Jung Il-woo advertising facial products. Enough has been said.

Sandra and I headed homeward at around 10 PM. As we walked through Wangsimni, we started noting the people that had been out drinking. Red-cheeked Koreans sleeping on the backs of their somewhat more sober friends, a few middle-aged business men walking through the streets arm in arm, singing, and of course, people sitting outside of convenience stores at little plastic chairs and tables, drinking soju together. I was surprised at first-you don't see this in the United States. Coming up across from the police station, Sandra and I were suddenly assailed by a man who just randomly struck up a conversation. He told us he was Japanese and that it was his birthday. He asked us where we were from-we thought he maybe just wanted to practice English. We told him a little about ourselves, but when I tried to ask him why he was in Korea, he couldn't really formulate an answer. Getting a strange feeling about him, I moved away, allowing Sandra to fill in the space between us. However, he kept walking ahead of her, trying to talk only to me. He kept switching between Korean, English, and Japanese, so I was having a hard time understanding him. He suddenly asked if we wanted to go drink beer with him. I could hear him repeating a Japanese phrase under his breath which means 'I like...(implied you)" but I pretended to not understand any Japanese and Sandra told him quickly that I couldn't drink, that I was too young. He acted shocked and asked me if I was a high school student. I immediately told him I was seventeen, and yes, I'm a high schooler (it isn't true, but I'm the same age as one and prefer to be treated that way). He then looked at Sandra and said 'are you a high school student, too? Too young to drink?'. She paused for a moment, and he said 'Are you nineteen?'. Sandra, who I immediately thought was amazing for her quick thinking, told him she was and explained that we were going home now, telling him goodnight. He wandered off with perhaps a 'bye', but I honestly don't remember. I lied about my high school enrollment and she lied about her age, but we were just happy to get rid of him. It's funny looking back on it. Sandra told me she could smell alcohol on him-I couldn't, but I have a bad nose. After a little nervous laughter and resting a while at her dorm, we parted ways and I started out on the long walk back to my dorm, hoping I didn't run into any one else who had been drinking. 
I'd like to make a note here that all those who had been drinking that I saw in South Korea were very nice-I never saw any drunks fighting or making obnoxious commotion. There were a few instances of old men singing rather loudly together, but I thought this was really endearing and actually took a video to record their voices (not them, since I figured that was an invasion of privacy). And even this strange man was rather nice to us, despite his wayward intentions. So I don't want anyone to think that I'm complaining. I won't say Koreans don't drink-because they drink like crazy-but I also won't say that it bothered me.
Okay, so do you remember my little speech about how awesome Chinese guys are supposed to be? This very night I met a Chinese man trying to find his way around campus. He was in Seoul for an economics program that was to last a week. He was very excited about it because there would be Americans there to talk about world business, economics, trade, and all those good things that include math and statistics. ;) I had no idea what he was talking about, but I somehow knew where the building he was looking for was. When he came back on the way to his dorm, I was still running around Hanyang Women's University trying to find my way back to my dorms. Yes. It's sad when I found out I was practically walking in circles. It took me over an hour to find my way back, but I got to meet a nice person who told me to come visit Beijing sometime, and to "never believe what the U.S. media says about Chinese pollution-it's not any worse than Seoul!". I promised him I would consider a trip to Beijing one day-and you know what, maybe one day I'll go there.
All in all, it wasn't a bad day-stressful, that's for sure, and I was starting to hit my 'people interaction limit' but still an adventure all the same.

Come back for the next post in which I will write about an adorable little boy calling me 'noona' (I have a video of him!) and his grandpa, the Blue House (Korea's White House), a marketplace, my first real conversation with a Korean girl, and a hilarious phone call in 3 languages. Oh, and ddeokbokki. Amazing ddeokbokki. :)

-Argentia

Monday, September 2, 2013

Meet My Boyfriend

We've been together about a year now, my boyfriend and I.
He's pretty awesome-no matter where I go, I always think about him. He loves to tell me new and interesting things, and he can keep me talking for hours on end about stuff he has told me. There have even been times he has kept me up until early morning hours, filling my head with dreams of faraway places, adventures to foreign lands, and exciting new discoveries. Sometimes, we don't always get along; there are days when I pointedly avoid him, there are times he makes me cry, and there are times when I yell at him. There have even been days I feel like telling all of my friends what a jerk he is, and I have. Once, I even threatened to break up with him. I've hit him before and later regretted it, and I often fear that he will leave me as revenge for my complaints about him. I realize that my boyfriend is very important to me. I spend an average of some 45 + hours on him each week; if I didn't have my boyfriend, who would comfort me when I feel lonely? Who would always be there, rain or shine, to talk with me, to share ideas with me, to make me think about things I never thought about before? Who would inspire me to reach for my dreams, to work my mind to the highest capacity, to challenge myself? I can tell you that I truly do love my boyfriend, and even if he can be exhausting, I couldn't imagine being with anyone else in the entire world.
I'm sure by now you desperately want to know my boyfriend's name, or see a picture of this amazing man that has won over my fickle heart.
Image from 360solutions.com
 Isn't he just the most lovely thing imaginable? Soft, worn out, brown, flat pages scrawled with black letters, all tucked inside the most simplistic yet beautiful choices of fashion-book covers-make up my boyfriend. As you can guess, he goes by many a name-you could call him a 'book', a 'class', a 'school', or even 'Spanish 201', but I think the word which best describes him is 'knowledge'. He is wonderful and terrible at the same time, but oh-so unavoidable, and I'm stuck to him like glue for at least 3 more years.

 Before anyone starts feeling sorry for me or worried that I'm about to throw a pity party, don't panic! This is for laughs! So laugh people! I am married to my books. 

 To be serious, though, books aren't that amazing to me-just like anyone else, I need the company of other human beings sometimes, and a boyfriend isn't such a bad thought once you start throwing up the options in front of me. And believe me, it's hard to stay married to an object when a living, breathing, wonderful work of God is standing right in front of you: single, handsome, and smart. But alas, I ought to spent 45 hours a week in school or studying just for college classes and about 8 hours a week at work (this can change depending upon how many people they have on the crew, sick calls, people suddenly quitting, etc etc.) I'm trying to spend at least 5 hours a week studying Korean, and I spend 2 a week at the gym for P.E. class. Yes, once I equate school and eating, that still leaves me about 5 hours of free time a day, and I am the queen of wasting time, but I still don't understand why so many college students seem to be at school only to get a man.
Now, like I said earlier, I'm not trying to say I don't want a man. I'm not saying that at all.
I'm just wishing that more people (read: grandmother saying "so Argentia, have you met any interesting *nudge nudge* guys at school?") would understand that at this time in my life, I am not at school to find Mr. Right. I am at school to get my Associate's degree in Liberal Arts with the intention of transferring to a larger university in order to major in Linguistics with a double major or minor in East Asian Languages and Cultures with a focus in Korean language (mostly because I haven't decided yet). I repeat this sentence all the time. I will once again make it clear that I am not bitter: I love my current 'boyfriend' and I wouldn't trade my education opportunities for anything right now (remember the 'right now'-it will be important later on in this post).
I see so many couples on my college campus, and I hear so many students that around my age or older begin complaining about 'being perpetually single', or proclaiming that they are working on their 'Mrs. Degree'. I hate the very thought of me studying for a Mrs. Degree because it implies that all of my efforts at good grades, at looking presentable, at choosing a major, are all in the interest of finding my perfect match. When I come out of college without Mr. Right, what will I do with myself if my 'degree' was all about a person I never met? I'll be devastated, that's what I'll be.
So instead I have a different idea: why don't I choose a career I will enjoy, study hard because I love learning, and begin work because I want to make a positive contribution to society while waiting for Mr. Right to come along when it's the right time? (here's where 'right now' comes into play)
I'm not condemning having a relationship in college, or dating, or even getting married. I'm just saying I would rather wait. I don't see how anyone has the time for a serious relationship while trying to grovel up an exhaustive sum of money, ingest a ridiculous amount of information, and put forth time and energy into furthering their education. If you're actually trying to further your education, of course, which some people just aren't into, and I can understand that, too. After all, even I've thought of breaking up before.
 Right now, and not to brag or anything, I could probably find a boyfriend. It's not like there aren't billions of single men out there on this earth, and I'm sure there's at least twenty-something good looking, intelligent, interested fellows that could put up with me for more than six months without finding themselves in an asylum afterwards. But I don't want one. I'll take friends-lots of friends-and we can be friends for a while, and if you're willing to wait, well, you might just be a very lucky guy someday (you'll probably be very unfortunate, honestly, because I'll still be pretty close to my books).
 You'll just have to stick around to find out, though. As of this moment, I'm stuck with deep thoughts about economics, politics, and most of all, why someone would mistakenly say 'I feel hard' rather than 'I feel sad/angry/lonely' when trying to learn the English language. It can be isolating, but any time I start to complain about not having friends or a boyfriend, I look at those extra 5 hours each day, and I bury myself in either Korean dramas, some kind of writing, or yet another graphic novel or psychology book. Obviously, I'm in love, and there's no tearing me away for a while yet.

-Argentia Krystofel (I even use a pseudonym, how freakishly geeky and bookish is that?!)